The BiFFs revisit the Urban Diplomat this week. One writer teeters between shame and falling from grace. A peeper complains that her neighbor is peeping. Lemonade and ball-hockey piss off an abutting neighbor. And do ear infections really put hair on your chest? [Bancroft Estates 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

This week’s episode features Dear Kiki. The BiFFs discuss the dislike of receiving oral sex, a minor on Tinder pushing the legal limits with a twenty-three year old, and age as a factor in a relationship where the other half is barely legal. [Cap Royal 2019 Bordeaux Supérieur]

On the week of our 50th episode, we’re talking through the classic Dear Abby columns. A man keeps his knowledge of his wife’s affair from her. A father and daughter, each struggling with addiction, wage a child-custody battle. A dormant STI turns a long marriage into a ‘whodunnit.’ [Luc Belaire Gold Champagne]

Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]

The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” 2016 Zinfandel]

Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano 2016 Chianti Classico]

In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]

The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres 2018 Garnacha]

It's bad advice all around this week. The BiFFs take on a Mom who wants to give her youngster a custom thong, a husband past his prime loves on his kiddos leaving his wife jealous, and a parent makes a big deal out of pronouns. [Antigal Uno 2018 Malbec]

A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rose Brut]

This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity 2017 Cabernet Sauvignon]

It’s Thanksgiving and the BiFFs are in the holiday spirit. Let’s serve up a side of unhelpful in-laws, with a little Black-Friday shopping poured over top. Who needs turkey when you can serve politics on a silver platter. Set a plate for Dad’s little secret. She’s coming to dinner, and she ain’t keeping quiet. [Sail to Trail 2016 Malbec]

The BiFFs celebrate forty episodes with an audience of family and friends. Listen on as they tackle Reddit's Am I The Assh*ole thread. Join Stefani, Ray, and friends as they address a deadbeat fiancé, a live-in mom’s disrespect, a house-stealing brother, and a woman who chooses her partner via credit check and bank info. [Sterling 2019 Chardonnay (White Sangria)]

The BiFFs warm up with Gawking Gary and Sterile Steve, who hasn't put out for ten years. Oh, bee-tee-dubz, your mother puts out. [Old Soul 2020 Chardonnay]

Stefani and Ray turn to the Slate's "How to Do It" for content this week. Where does Chelsea put her Cherry Chapstick? Mother and son - a bond to be undone. How hot is your cousin? Hot enough to...? It ain't a wine night. [Chateau Bel Air 2019 Bordeaux and Bonfante & Chiarle 2015 Barolo]

This week, Stefani and Ray reflect on Little Village Mag's Dear Kiki. A boyfriend falls victim to his girlfriend's trap when he accepts her invitation to rifle through her text messages. Rambunctious sexual responses from her partner leave a girlfriend's neighbors flustered. A friendly female finds herself dodging the advances of older men. [Château La Commanderie du Bardelet 2018 Sauvignon Blanc]

Emily Yoffe of tried-and-true Dear Prudie fame takes center stage as the topic of conversation with Stefani and Ray. A live-in girlfriend takes it upon herself to surveil the kids. A husband's dead wife gets credit for making way for happiness in his new marriage. A trans woman keeps her transition a secret from her new partner. [Chateau de Roques 2015 Puisseguin St Emilion]

The BiFFs hit another Facebook Community this week with entries on AITA (Am I The A-Hole). One troll wonders if she can send her partner's child to her grandparents because she looks like his late wife. Another poster gets a worker fired for being too pretty at her wedding. The last question involves a boyfriend meeting up with his ex- in a vacant home and it's complicated. Who's the assh*le, now? [Cooper & Thief 2019 Red Blend]

The BiFFs jump around between advice columnists this week. Amy of Ask Amy publishes a question from someone who evokes talk of "girl code" when a guy connects with a friend of a woman who ghosted him. A Miss Manners writer questions the intentions of their partner's need to constantly correct them. Carolyn Hax's question deals with commitment when a writer dates in wait for the next best thing. [19-Crimes 2021 Sauvignon Blanc]

In this episode, Stefani & Ray circle back to classic columnist, Carolyn Hax. A reader once highly criticized is now lavishly praised by her parents and can't find middle ground. Another is too busy waiting for a relapse than enjoying her partner's victories. The final reader questions loyalty when asked to have her untruthful partner's back. [19-Crimes 2021 Shiraz]